Which Spouse Retains Residential Custody?

Child Custody Long Island

When deciding which spouse will retain residential custody, the Court will have to determine what is in the best interest of the children in question. Until recently, NY followed the “tender years presumption” which stated that mothers were inherently better suited to assume the custody of young children. This presumption has been abolished and the law is currently gender neutral. Thus, there is no prima facie right to custody of a child to either parent. The Court will consider a host of factors when deciding what is in the best interests of the child. Factors the Court will contemplate include: (1) the parent’s physical and mental health; (2) the use of drugs and/or alcohol; (3) sexual activity; (4) lifestyle; (5) neglect abuse or abandonment; (6) physical or emotional abuse and (7) the parent’s relative economic status. These are just a few of the examples which the Court will consider. The Court will not give more weight to any particular factor it considers. Instead the Court will consider the totality of the circumstances when making a determination.

In evaluating what is in the best interests of the child, the home environment and ability to meet the child’s needs will need to be ascertained. The Court will consider the quality of the home environment each parent is able to provide for the child. Thus, the Court will be looking not only to the physical safety of the home, but each parent’s ability to provide for the child’s emotional, social and intellectual development. The Court’s prefer for the direct guidance and care of the child vice a third party like a baby sitter or nanny. So you may be thinking now, how does the financial resources of a parent effect the Court’s analysis?

A parent that makes more money may be able to provide a “better” home and nicer environment however Courts take into consideration the fact that if you are the non-monied spouse, you will also be entitled to child support which will level the playing field. On the other hand, while a third party is not necessarily looked on favorably by the Court, an argument can be made that in today’s environment, both parents need to work and someone may need to watch the child. If you have the financial resources to afford a nanny or day care, that will also be factored into the equation.

LEARNING POINT: The totality of circumstance will decide who gets custody. If custody cannot be worked out between the separating parties, consult an attorney quickly. You must start preparing your case immediately and shoring up your position. You do not want early decisions to have a detrimental effect on your ability to maintain custody of your child.

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